If a child actor-turned-porn star and an admitted gold digger cocktail waitress can’t find love on reality television, is there any hope for the rest of us??

Today VH1 announced that Ray-J will be back in front of the camera skanking it up and looking for “love.”

VH1 is looking for women with confidence, personality and class that can handle the pressure of being with a superstar and turn Ray J into a one-woman man.

Class?? Maybe they are banking on women who have never seen the show… or heard of Ray J.. or reality television.

Cocktail, who screamed, “I’m Ray-J’s girlfriend, bitches!” at the first season’s conclusion, says she and Ray remain friends and admitted to “‘acting’ like we were together,” despite being broken up before beginning a recent press tour.